The personality is the typical pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaviors that make a person unique. When we say that someone has a “good personality” we mean that they are likable, interesting, and pleasant to be with.
To that end, having a good personality is vital – probably even more so than good looks. Check these four ways out!
1) Analyzing the kid version of you!
Understand this truth about life..
- Your insecurities
- Your perception of the world
- Your thought patterns
are decided by your past childhood experiences
Parents are a huge part of the process how a child is moulded. If you had encouraging,positive parents, the chances are more of you being an optimist.if you had parents who were pretty worried about life and super busy with work-life, the chances are that you have it more than optimists.
The key that shall be constanty analyzed are:
- Your thought patterns
- Your behavioral patterns
Ask yourself questions: Is my mind genuinely happy? I am feeling right by doing what i am doing ? Is everything that’s bothering my life- important?
If any of your answers here are positive or negative, take a moment, breathe and analyze about what your thoughts really are!
Try to understand the mistakes you have committed or the way things might have been done with ease without stressing your life.
The answer always lies around yourself. The moment you start believing in yourself and start getting answers to your own questions, that’s the moment things will begin to excel in life.
PS: Meditation increases this process
You can check out our blog on meditation: The Importance of Meditation! 5 Facts You Need to Know
2) Keep your Circle Small
“A person is known by the company he keeps”!
They say you are an average of the five people you hang out with the most. Therefore, ask yourself where you want to be 5 years from now, and begin selecting friends based on your goals. Having fun and enjoying time with friends is a must, but also it shouldn’t cost you a failure or a downfall in your life.
Have friends that help you grow. The relation should be a grow together relation where there is loads of learning and progress. Face the ups-downs of the real hectic life together and thus, excel in life.
Cutt off the lazy ones, the negative ones, and the ones having bad habits. You will witness your mindset, habit, and life change when you are surrounded by the right people who compliment you
Surround yourself with people who force you out of your comfort zone. That’s where the growth takes place. A warrior grows best when surrounded by warriors.
3)Upgrade your social media game
Your thoughts are an average of thoughts of the 10 influencers you follow!
Everytime you open Instagram,Youtube,Facebook, you are exposing yourself to other peoples mind. You start grasping some of the aspects you see on social media in your real life, you consume what your mind requires at that stage of your life.
If your mind requires a break from your everyday routine and escape from the world, you tend to use social media. Chances are that you prefer comic content to make yourself a bit happy.
If your mind requires growth and roadmaps, chances are that you use social media to learn and motivate yourself.
The main question!
Who to follow on social media?
Have a good balance of content that helps you escape reality and also content that further enhances your further reality.
Follow accounts that help you learn and that helps you become the person you’re trying to become.
Unfollow anyone who causes jealousy, anxiety, negativity, or anger to crop up in your mind.
4) Play with your learning!
Checking out social media and being updated with the facts is important, but at times, it can also be a massive waste of time. Even if the content you consume is value adding, you need to put a limit on how much time you spend in front of screens.
Social media has the potential to make you smarter , and also give life directions.
For thoughts to turn into wisdom and personality, you have to :
- Spend time doing physical activity
- Spend time with family and friends
- Have meaningful conversations with people
- Discover and travel to places, it teaches a lot in life
- Spend time alone
- Spend time applying your knowledge in the professional field.
In order to build your personality, first grasp knowledge, then apply the knowledge, then learn from your mistakes, and then, solidify these experiences as wisdom.
ALSO READ: 6 Tips To Get In A Better Mood Instantly!
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